{"id":2381,"date":"2018-02-05T07:36:24","date_gmt":"2018-02-05T07:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tele-encounters.com\/?p=2381"},"modified":"2018-08-14T21:24:28","modified_gmt":"2018-08-14T21:24:28","slug":"interviu-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tele-encounters-beyond.eu\/tele-encounters.com\/ro\/interviu-13\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0218i c\u00e2nd sunt plecat pe afar\u0103 cu prietenii m\u0103 sun\u0103 de zece ori pe zi (RO)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\">1. Identificare<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">1. 1. V\u00e2rsta: 18 ani.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">1. 2. Sex: M.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">1. 3. Care p\u0103rinte e plecat? Tata.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">1. 4. \u021aara \u00een care sunt pleca\u021bi: \u00cen Spania.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">1. 5. De c\u00e2nd e plecat? Aproape optsprezece ani.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">1. 6. Cu cine locuie\u0219ti acum? Cu mama \u0219i bunica mea. Mama mamei.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">2. Cum era \u00eenainte de plecarea p\u0103rintelui.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Practic, c\u00e2nd a plecat tat\u0103l t\u0103u, tu te n\u0103scuse\u0219i&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, m\u0103 n\u0103scusem, eram micu\u021b. Aveam c\u00e2teva luni.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00cen perioada aceasta, dac\u0103 a fost nevoie, c\u00e2nd a fost nevoie, cine te ajuta la lec\u021bii?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cen mare parte mi-am f\u0103cut singur temele. Unde era o nel\u0103murire, s\u0103 zic a\u0219a, la matematic\u0103, mai t\u00e2rziu, \u00een a \u0219aptea, a opta, m\u0103 ajuta mama mea.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Tat\u0103lui t\u0103u i-ai cerut vreodat\u0103 sfatul, \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu lec\u021biile?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu, nu a fost nevoie.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">3. Dup\u0103 plecare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; De ce a trebuit s\u0103 plece?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Pentru a lucra acolo, pentru c\u0103 el nu a urmat \u00een Rom\u00e2nia ni\u0219te studii superioare, gen facultate, ca s\u0103 aib\u0103 un loc de munc\u0103 mai bine pl\u0103tit, a\u0219a c\u0103 a ales s\u0103 se duc\u0103 \u00een Spania.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ai un anume sentiment \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu acest motiv al dumnealui, o anumit\u0103 opinie?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Este strict problema lui pentru c\u0103 a plecat acolo, adic\u0103 eu nu am fost afectat cu absolut nimic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Deci, grij\u0103 de tine are?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Tata? \u0103\u0103\u0103&#8230; Mama. Da. \u0218i tata financiar. \u00cemi trimite lunar.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Te \u00een\u021belegi bine cu mama ta?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, super-bine \u0219i cu tata&#8230; verile mi le petrec \u00een Spania, la el, \u00een vacan\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ave\u021bi \u0219i alte rude \u00een ora\u0219? Sau \u00een \u00eemprejurimi?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. Da. Rudele din partea mamei. Unchi, m\u0103tu\u0219i, veri.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cum v\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Ne \u00een\u021belegem super-bine. Cu toat\u0103 lumea.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ai avut, \u00een ace\u0219ti ani, probleme mai grave de s\u0103n\u0103tate? A trebuit s\u0103 te duci repede la doctor? S\u0103 te internezi?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu, niciodat\u0103. Nu am fost niciodat\u0103 \u00een spital.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Prietenii t\u0103i, au \u0219i ei p\u0103rin\u021bi pleca\u021bi \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, am destui prieteni cu p\u0103rin\u021bi pleca\u021bi \u00een afar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Te sim\u021bi mai apropiat de ace\u0219tia, dec\u00e2t de cei care au p\u0103rin\u021bii acas\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu neap\u0103rat, adic\u0103 sunt la fel cu to\u021bi prietenii.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Adic\u0103 nu sunt discu\u021bii de genul \u201emama mea e \u00een Italia\u201d \u201emama mea e \u00een Spania\u201d, \u201e\u00een Italia e mai cald\u201d \u201e\u00een Spania e mai bine\u201d?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: A, nu. De obicei lucrurile astea nu prea le discut\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Iar ceilal\u021bi, care au p\u0103rin\u021bii aici, au o atitudine special\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de tine?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Nici nu te invidiaz\u0103, nici nu te comp\u0103timesc&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu, e aceea\u0219i atitudine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218tii cumva ce muncea tat\u0103l t\u0103u aici?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cen Rom\u00e2nia, \u0219ofer pe ma\u0219in\u0103 mai mic\u0103, iar \u00een Spania, \u0219ofer de tir.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Zici c\u0103 te ajut\u0103 cu bani.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, da, da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Trimite bani mamei tale?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Mi-i trimite mie, \u00een contul bancar. C\u00e2nd eram minor, \u00eei trimitea mamei, \u0219i mama mi-i d\u0103dea mie. Bani de buzunar, c\u00e2teodat\u0103 \u0219i pentru pl\u0103\u021bile facturilor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cadouri \u00ee\u021bi trimite?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. De ziua mea, de Cr\u0103ciun trimite cadouri&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Un exemplu?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i&#8230; mi-a luat un laptop, pentru c\u0103 am intrat la liceu, mi-a luat aparat foto, bli\u021b la aparat foto, obiective la aparatul foto \u0219i&#8230; de-ale picturii. P\u00e2nze, \u0219evalet, uleiuri, pensule, acrilice, mai multe&#8230; adic\u0103, exact ce mi-a trebuit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Este ceva ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti s\u0103 ai, \u0219i speri s\u0103 ob\u021bii folosind banii de la tat\u0103l t\u0103u?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, pentru c\u0103 am optsprezece ani, \u0219coala de \u0219oferi s\u0103 o termin, \u0219i s\u0103 iau carnetul. F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pic examenele. (R\u00e2de.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ma\u0219in\u0103 ave\u021bi?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: O s\u0103 \u00eemi cumpere tata ma\u0219in\u0103 \u0219i, mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 am locul de munc\u0103, o s\u0103 \u00eemi iau eu. Ca de obicei.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Din c\u00e2te mi-ai spus, vrei s\u0103 faci Arte Frumoase; unde?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: O s\u0103 am facultatea \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, la foto-video la UNARTE, \u0219i o s\u0103 mai aleg ni\u0219te op\u021biuni \u00een afar\u0103, la alte facult\u0103\u021bi, de renume.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i cum faci? Studiu la distan\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i \u00een caz c\u0103 nu intru \u00een Rom\u00e2nia o s\u0103 intru la facult\u0103\u021bile din afar\u0103. \u0218i invers. O s\u0103 aplic la mai multe variante.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Unde \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea cel mai mult?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: La cea din Rotterdam &#8211; pe foto-video, pentru c\u0103 este foarte bun\u0103 facultatea.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cursurile sunt pl\u0103tite? \u021ai le pl\u0103te\u0219ti tu?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, pot fi \u0219i gratuite \u0219i cu plat\u0103, undeva la patru mii de euro pe an, cred&#8230; sau cinci mii.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">4. Mijloace de comunicare prin Internet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">* Tehnic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Acas\u0103 ai internet?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Normal. (R\u00e2de.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Pe computer, pe&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Pe toate device-urile. Smartphone, telefon, laptop, laptop secundar&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Laptop secundar? Adic\u0103 al doilea laptop?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, am dou\u0103 laptopuri. Pe unul \u00eemi procesez poze, \u0219i pe altul m\u0103 mai joc, c\u00e2nd am timp. Sau mai st\u0103 mama mea pe el. Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cine pl\u0103te\u0219te abonamentul?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Eu; pentru c\u0103 eu consum internet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Adic\u0103 din banii primi\u021bi de la tat\u0103l t\u0103u&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, p\u0103i e trei zeci de lei. (R\u00e2de.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; E o responsabilitate, pe care \u021bi-o asumi! De c\u00e2nd ai computer? Primul computer.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: De la doisprezece ani; \u0219i internet de la treisprezece.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cine a cump\u0103rat computerul?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Tata.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cu o ocazie anume? Sau&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu, l-a cump\u0103rat pentru c\u0103 eram \u00een clasa a patra \u0219i eram destul de mare \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 am, probabil, calculator.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ai scris vreodat\u0103 scrisori de m\u00e2n\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, c\u00e2nd eram mai micu\u021b, bunicilor din partea tat\u0103lui, care stau \u00een alt ora\u0219.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Unde?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Ialomi\u021ba; \u0219i le trimiteam iarna scrisori sau felicit\u0103ri pictate de mine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Tat\u0103lui t\u0103u i-ai trimis felicit\u0103ri pictate de tine?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cen Spania, nu. Nu i-am trimis felicit\u0103ri tat\u0103lui meu.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cu colegii, prietenii, folose\u0219ti programe de comunicare prin internet?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Desigur. Facebook \u0219i WhatsApp \u0219i telefonie mobil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Deci ai cont pe Facebook.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Tat\u0103l t\u0103u are?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cum preferi s\u0103 comunici cu dumnealui?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i, c\u00e2nd sunt plecat pe afar\u0103 comunic la telefon, c\u00e2nd sunt acas\u0103 vorbim prin apel video, pe Facebook.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cine sun\u0103 de obicei?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: De obicei, el m\u0103 sun\u0103. Deseori.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Te sun\u0103 des?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, de trei ori pe zi. Zilnic. \u0218i c\u00e2nd sunt plecat pe afar\u0103 cu prietenii m\u0103 sun\u0103 de zece ori pe zi. C\u00e2nd ies \u00een ora\u0219. \u0218i c\u00e2nd sunt la o petrecere de dou\u0103zeci de ori pe zi. Este foarte grijuliu \u0219i curios \u00een acela\u0219i timp.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti cum ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 folose\u0219ti computerul?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, \u021bin minte c\u0103 erau ni\u0219te reviste care se g\u0103seau la tarabe \u0219i aveau instruc\u021biuni de folosire a windows-ului, a programelor, \u0219i, dup\u0103 aceea, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat singur s\u0103 \u00eel folosesc.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Altceva, la computer, \u00een afar\u0103 de comunicare \u0219i de procesarea fotografiilor, ce mai faci?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: M\u0103 uit la seriale, c\u00e2nd sunt plictisit \u0219i vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 relaxez, mai ascult muzic\u0103, \u0219i mai \u00eenv\u0103\u021b metode de procesare a fotografiilor, mai avansate.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Editezi, cumva, mici clipuri video?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu. De partea video nu prea m-am ocupat pentru c\u0103 nu prea duce performan\u021bele laptopului c\u00e2t s\u0103 proceseze un Full HD. R\u0103m\u00e2n pe static. Fotografie. \u0218i design.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Au fost situa\u021bii \u00een care ai fi vrut s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti cu tat\u0103l t\u0103u \u0219i nu ai putut?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: C\u00e2nd eram mai mic, vorbeam mai greu cu el, pentru c\u0103 mai aveam dificult\u0103\u021bi tehnice cu telefonul, \u0219i mai schimbam c\u00e2te o cartel\u0103 \u0219i tot a\u0219a \u0219ivorbeam o dat\u0103 pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 cu el. Pentru c\u0103 era \u0219i ocupat cu locul de munc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Mail folose\u0219ti? Pentru a coresponda cu dumnealui?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Mail, nu.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">* Con\u021binut.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Deci, vorbi\u021bi \u0219i de trei ori pe zi, \u0219i de zece ori pe noapte&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti cumva prima comunicare cu dumnealui?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. C\u00e2nd aveam patru sau cinci ani, \u0219tiu c\u0103 vorbea cu p\u0103rin\u021bii mei (sic!) \u0219i vorbea mai mult cu p\u0103rin\u021bii \u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 vorbeam \u0219i eu cu el acolo.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Stai pu\u021bin, cum vorbea cu p\u0103rin\u021bii t\u0103i?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Mama, bunica.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Deci vorbea cu dumnealor&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u0218i vorbeam \u0219i eu cu el.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cum te sim\u021beai c\u00e2nd vorbeai?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Eram oarecum fericit, adic\u0103 \u00eel \u00eentrebam c\u00e2nd urmeaz\u0103 s\u0103 vin\u0103 \u00een \u021bar\u0103&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 pentru tine e normal ca tat\u0103l t\u0103u s\u0103 fie departe. Intr\u0103 \u00een normalitate&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel suni \u0219i tu?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, \u00eel mai sun c\u00e2teodat\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eel \u00eentreb ce mai face, sau c\u00e2nd nu m\u0103 mai sun\u0103 el, \u00eel sun eu pe el.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Sunt anumite ocazii \u00een care \u00eel suni?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cel sun \u0219i de s\u0103rb\u0103tori, \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eel mai \u00eentreb ce face.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u021ai-ai dori s\u0103 vorbi\u021bi chiar \u0219i mai des?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Mai des de trei ori pe zi nu prea. (R\u00e2de.) Devine stresant la un moment dat.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Despre ce vorbe\u0219ti de obicei cu dumnealui?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 dac\u0103 m-am trezit, dac\u0103 am m\u00e2ncat, ce am m\u00e2ncat, c\u00e2t am m\u00e2ncat, dac\u0103 e prea pu\u021bin, s\u0103 mai m\u0103n\u00e2nc \u0219i ce-am f\u0103cut la \u0219coal\u0103, lec\u021bii, tot, cu cine am ie\u0219it afar\u0103, c\u00e2nd am ie\u0219it, c\u00e2nd am intrat \u00een cas\u0103, detalii de genul.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ultima dat\u0103 ce a\u021bi vorbit?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Ultima dat\u0103 mi-a zis \u201enoapte bun\u0103\u201d. M-a sunat asear\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi zic\u0103 \u201enoapte bun\u0103\u201d?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i bine, m-a \u00eentrebat ce am m\u00e2ncat \u0219i dac\u0103 mi-am scris temele, dac\u0103 nu le-am scris, s\u0103 le scriu \u0219i dup\u0103 aia s\u0103 m\u0103 culc. Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Te \u00eentreab\u0103 ce \u0219i-ai dori s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi trimit\u0103? S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aduc\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, m\u0103 mai \u00eentreab\u0103, deseori, \u0219i eu \u00eei r\u0103spund neutru, adic\u0103 \u00eei zic \u201eb\u0103, nu-i nevoie, \u00eemi iau de aici, din banii mei.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Nu \u00eel rogi, niciodat\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi trimit\u0103 ceva? Ceva ce nu se g\u0103se\u0219te aici, sau se g\u0103se\u0219te aici \u0219i e mai scump dec\u00e2t \u00een Spania?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Bine, o chestie ar fi acum s\u0103 \u00eemi trimit\u0103 ni\u0219te fructe de mare, la iarn\u0103, pentru c\u0103 aici nu g\u0103sesc exact anim\u0103lu\u021bele pe care vreau eu s\u0103 le m\u0103n\u00e2nc. \u0218i o s\u0103-i zic la iarn\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi trimit\u0103 un colet, c\u0103 am r\u0103mas a\u0219a, cu pofta, de ast\u0103-var\u0103. Gustul acela. Al lor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; C\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219ti cu tat\u0103l t\u0103u, se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u0219i alte persoane \u00een camer\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. Ori mama, ori bunica mea. Sau v\u0103rul meu, c\u00e2nd \u00eel mai ajut la lec\u021bii. Este clasa a \u0219asea.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i dac\u0103 sunt mai multe persoane \u00een camer\u0103, deschizi speakerul, s\u0103 ave\u021bi o conversa\u021bie \u00een comun?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu. Vorbesc eu la ureche cu el.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Sunt lucruri pe care sim\u021bi c\u0103 nu le po\u021bi discuta dec\u00e2t cu tat\u0103l t\u0103u?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu. Ce discut cu mama discut \u0219i cu tata.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Anumite lucruri sim\u021bi c\u0103 nu le po\u021bi spune dec\u00e2t fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu. Nu s-a pus problema. Adic\u0103 ce vorbesc la telefon pot vorbi \u0219i face-to-face \u0219i invers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Adic\u0103 tehnologia a intrat at\u00e2t de mult \u00een via\u021ba ta \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai e o interfa\u021b\u0103&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00cei ar\u0103\u021bi tat\u0103lui t\u0103u ce ai f\u0103cut la \u0219coal\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, \u00eei trimit deseori picturile mele, \u0219i fotografii.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i comenteaz\u0103 \u00eentr-un fel?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, adic\u0103 zice \u00eemi place aia, \u00eemi place aia&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Te ceart\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, m\u0103 mai ceart\u0103, c\u00e2nd ajung prea t\u00e2rziu acas\u0103, sau c\u00e2nd nu \u00eemi fac temele&#8230;. \u0219i bine, m\u0103 rog, c\u00e2nd eram la el, \u00een Spania, m\u0103 mai certa c\u00e2nd nu m\u00e2ncam toat\u0103 m\u00e2ncarea, pentru c\u0103 el este mai gr\u0103su\u021b. E un gurmand, \u0219i g\u0103tea mult \u0219i avea obliga\u021bia (sic!) fa\u021b\u0103 de mine ca s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc tot la fel de mult ca el. \u0218i eu am \u0219aizeci de kilograme, \u0219i el o sut\u0103 \u0219i&#8230; Era oarecum imposibil \u0219i m\u0103 mai certa. M\u0103 rog, c\u00e2nd nu \u00eemi pl\u0103cea ce g\u0103tea el m\u0103 punea pe mine s\u0103 g\u0103tesc.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; G\u0103teai? Te pricepi?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. Ceream bani, \u201em\u0103, d\u0103-mi dou\u0103zeci de euro\u201d, luam de ale mele, \u201eg\u0103tesc eu, m\u0103n\u00e2nci \u0219i tu, m\u00e2ine g\u0103te\u0219ti tu, m\u0103n\u00e2nc \u0219i eu\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i m\u00e2nca ce g\u0103teai tu?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, m\u00e2nca, dar nu se s\u0103tura.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; De pl\u0103cut, \u00eei pl\u0103cea?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cei pl\u0103cea, da. Eu g\u0103team mai light, a\u0219a, el&#8230; mai hard, a\u0219a, mai cu gr\u0103sime, cu ceaf\u0103 mult\u0103. (R\u00e2de.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Mai mioritic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Mai rom\u00e2nesc.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i tu, mai mediteranean.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, exact.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cine \u021bine leg\u0103tura cu \u0219coala?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Mama.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Tata?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Tata, mai rar, cu diriginta, la telefon.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; O sun\u0103, sau dumneaei \u00eel sun\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u0218tiu c\u0103 de obicei el sun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Interesant. Chiar \u00ee\u021bi poart\u0103 de grij\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">5. Cum a evoluat rela\u021bia cu Tata (etape importante\/momente semnificative)<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; C\u00e2t de des vine tat\u0103l t\u0103u \u00een \u021bar\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Cam o dat\u0103 la un an. C\u00e2nd are concediu, dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ultima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd a fost?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: A venit \u00een luna martie, anul acesta.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i ce a\u021bi f\u0103cut?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i a venit s\u0103 \u00eel vad\u0103 pe tat\u0103l lui, adic\u0103 pe bunicul meu, pentru c\u0103 el are ni\u0219te probleme. Are o ciroz\u0103 \u0219i, m\u0103 rog, ni\u0219te hemoragii interne. \u0218i, \u00een fine, au discutat c\u0103&#8230; sim\u021bea c\u0103 nu mai tr\u0103ie\u0219te mult, bunicul meu, pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a i-a zis doctorul de&#8230; i-a zis \u201em\u0103, mai ai de tr\u0103it trei luni\u201d; bine, \u0219i a mai tr\u0103it vreo trei ani de atunci, de la alea trei luni. Acum se simte mai r\u0103u \u0219i a venit tata s\u0103 \u00eel vad\u0103, adic\u0103 credea c\u0103 moare \u0219i a venit s\u0103 \u00eel vad\u0103 pe ultimul drum, cum ar veni. \u0218i, m\u0103 rog, a stat cu el, a v\u0103zut c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219te bine, adic\u0103 (r\u00e2de \u00eentr-un col\u021b al gurii) n-a murit, tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u0219i acum, e super-ok. \u00cen fine, i-a luat ni\u0219te tuburi de oxigen \u0219i&#8230; a venit \u0219i la mine \u00een vizit\u0103 s\u0103 st\u0103m pu\u021bin de vorb\u0103 \u0219i dup\u0103 aceea a plecat \u00eenapoi, \u00een Spania.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Tuburi de oxigen?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Oxigen pentru respirat prin masc\u0103. Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Da. (Oftez.) De c\u00e2te ori ai fost la tat\u0103l t\u0103u?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: De dou\u0103 ori. Am fost prima dat\u0103 la \u0219aptesprezece ani, cu m\u0103tu\u0219a mea, care e sora lui. Am mers cu procur\u0103. So\u021bul ei lucreaz\u0103 tot acolo, \u00een Spania. \u0218i anul acesta am mers \u00een var\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 procur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ce anume te-a impresionat, dac\u0103 te-a impresionat ceva \u00een Spania?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, peisajul lor \u0219i m\u00e2ncarea, stilul lor de via\u021b\u0103, adic\u0103 ei sunt mult mai ferici\u021bi fa\u021b\u0103 de rom\u00e2ni, pentru c\u0103&#8230; bine, au \u0219i o situa\u021bie financiar\u0103 mult mai crescut\u0103 (sic!) fa\u021b\u0103 de cea a rom\u00e2nilor, \u0219i bine, sunt ei veseli, a\u0219a, au spiritul acela, aparte. Am c\u0103l\u0103torit mult \u00een Spania, vara aceasta \u0219i vara trecut\u0103 \u0219i am v\u0103zut diverse lucruri noi, fa\u021b\u0103 de Rom\u00e2nia. Civiliza\u021bia lor. E o diferen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Dintre ora\u0219ele pe care le-ai v\u0103zut, care \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut cel mai mult?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Barcelona, dup\u0103 aceea, Valencia&#8230; \u0219i, bine, a fost frumoas\u0103 \u0219i insula Ibiza. Da.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u0218i&#8230; Am fost \u00een Barcelona \u00een perioada atentatelor, adic\u0103 am fost cu o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eenainte de atentat, \u0219i am vrut s\u0103 merg la Sagrada Familia. La Sagrada Familia nu mai erau bilete disponibile dec\u00e2t peste o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Este foarte aglomerat\u0103, \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi iei bilete cu o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103 eu am avut noroc. E adev\u0103rat c\u0103 am fost \u00een perioada s\u0103rb\u0103torilor de iarn\u0103, \u0219i am fost acum mul\u021bi ani, \u0219i am intrat f\u0103r\u0103 probleme.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. \u0218i. Biletul acela era \u00een ziua cu atentatul. \u0218i l-am anulat, bine\u00een\u021beles, c\u0103 n-am mai vrut s\u0103 mai merg. Da. \u0218i a mai fost un atentat la vreo dou\u0103zeci de kilometri de loca\u021bia mea, undeva \u00een Cambrils, parc\u0103. Bine, a bubuit o cas\u0103, depozit de butelii&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Se pare c\u0103 erau tot aceia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, erau tot aceia. Preg\u0103teau un atentat. \u0218i, m\u0103 rog, \u00een rest, sunt lini\u0219ti\u021bi, spaniolii.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; C\u00e2t or mai fi, c\u0103 \u0219tii ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acum \u00een Catalonia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aduci aminte: ce ai f\u0103cut \u00een prima zi c\u00e2nd ai fost prima dat\u0103? Primele dou\u0103-trei zile.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, am stat \u00een Catalonia, \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 numit\u0103 Tarragona, la m\u0103tu\u0219a mea. \u0218i, m\u0103 rog, m-am plimbat pe acolo, prin or\u0103\u0219elul acela. \u0218i cam at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ceva deosebit?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: A, nu, nimic deosebit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Deci \u0219tii unde st\u0103 tat\u0103l t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, \u0219tiu.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eemi descrii locuin\u021ba sa?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: El st\u0103 cu chirie. \u0218i anul trecut avea un apartament cu o sufragerie combinat\u0103 cu buc\u0103t\u0103rie. La ei se zice comedor. \u0218i un dormitor. \u0218i pl\u0103tea dou\u0103 sute cincizeci de euro chirie. Anul acesta are o cas\u0103 cu dou\u0103 etaje, inclusiv parter, \u0219ase dormitoare, o buc\u0103t\u0103rie; bine, parterul nu este utilizabil, \u0219i d\u0103 tot dou\u0103 sute cincizeci de euro pe lun\u0103. \u0218i are at\u00e2tea camere&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u0218i ce face cu \u0219ase dormitoare?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i mai vin prieteni, mai vin rude \u00een vizit\u0103 la el, \u0219i tot a\u0219a. Pentru c\u0103 acea cas\u0103 e undeva la zece minute de plaj\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eemi dai am\u0103nunte despre ceea ce munce\u0219te?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: P\u0103i bine, munce\u0219te pe tir.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Face drumuri doar \u00een Spania?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Face drumuri \u00een Spania, \u0219i din Spania \u00een Fran\u021ba, \u0219i \u00eencarc\u0103 \u0219i din Fran\u021ba, din Fran\u021ba face iar un drum p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een Italia, \u0219i din Italia vine cu vaporul \u00een portul Barcelonei \u0219i repet\u0103 toate lucrurile acestea. \u0218i ajunge acas\u0103 o dat\u0103 la dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Dou\u0103 zile, \u0219i \u00eel sun\u0103 patronii, la trei noaptea, \u201evino la firm\u0103, am \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103tur\u0103, pleci \u00een Fran\u021ba.\u201d \u0218i tot a\u0219a.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Din Italia zici c\u0103 vine cu vaporul.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Sunt unele rute&#8230; c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 ajung\u0103 mai repede, ia vaporul \u0219i ajunge \u00een dou\u0103zeci \u0219i patru de ore. Pe ap\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Dumnealui \u021bi-a povestit despre aceste am\u0103nunte?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da, absolut tot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Din c\u00e2te \u021bi-a spus, a plecat definitiv, mai vrea s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103 \u00een \u021bar\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Cam definitiv, pentru c\u0103 are destui ani de munc\u0103 lucra\u021bi pe carte de munc\u0103 \u0219i pensia o s\u0103 fie tot de acolo.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ce avantaje ale faptului c\u0103 este plecat crezi c\u0103 ai tu?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Trimite mai mul\u021bi bani, adic\u0103 undeva la opt milioane pe lun\u0103, numai banii mei de cheltuial\u0103, de haine, de ie\u0219iri \u00een ora\u0219, seara \u00een cluburi \u0219i tot a\u0219a. E avantaj acesta, pentru c\u0103 banii aceia&#8230; unii oameni muncesc o lun\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei ob\u021bin\u0103. \u0218i el mi-i trimite mie. Dar oricum, am grij\u0103 mare de ei.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Ai o senza\u021bie de independen\u021b\u0103, mai puternic\u0103?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Nu. Sunt la fel ca ceilal\u021bi copii.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Sunt lucruri pe care nu i le spui tat\u0103lui t\u0103u? Note, certuri cu prietenii&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: A, nu. \u00cei zic absolut tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; P\u0103r\u021bi negative ale plec\u0103rii?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Faptul c\u0103 nu este aproape de mine. Adic\u0103 s\u0103 ciocnim un pahar de suc, \u0219i tot a\u0219a&#8230; Sau s\u0103rb\u0103torile, de exemplu, nu ni le petrecem \u00eempreun\u0103. El nici \u00een Spania nu petrece s\u0103rb\u0103torile, el le petrece pe camion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; De s\u0103rb\u0103tori, patronii \u00eel pun s\u0103 munceasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Da. Pentru c\u0103 este rom\u00e2n. Pentru c\u0103 pe ai lor, pe spanioli, \u00eei \u021bin acas\u0103, \u0219i pe rom\u00e2ni \u00eei trimit la munc\u0103, al\u0103turi de marocani, sau ecuadorieni. Da.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; Cum a\u021bi petrecut ultimul Cr\u0103ciun?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; R: Eu l-am petrecut cu prietenii, \u00een ora\u0219, seara, \u0219i dup\u0103 aceea, cu p\u0103rin\u021bii. Acas\u0103. Cu mama \u0219i cu bunica mea.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">&#8211; \u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc foarte mult&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Identificare 1. 1. V\u00e2rsta: 18 ani. 1. 2. Sex: M. 1. 3. Care p\u0103rinte e plecat? 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